You Didn’t Hear This From Me
“You Didn’t Hear This From Me” is a podcast hosted by UR Gay Brother, Isaiah, diving into all things relationships, self-love, physical and mental health, and more. Join Isaiah for candid conversations that uplift, inspire, and get real about the things we all think but don’t always say.
Episodes

Saturday Feb 15, 2025
Saturday Feb 15, 2025
Valentine’s Day Red Flags: What NOT to Ignore in Love
Love is in the air… or is it? In this special Valentine’s Day episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me, I’m diving into the biggest Valentine’s Day red flags—straight from my friends’ own experiences. From last-minute plans to ugly flowers we’re exposing all the shady behavior you shouldn’t ignore.
Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode is full of hilarious, eye-opening, and brutally honest takes on what makes or breaks a romantic holiday.
Don’t miss this fun (and slightly chaotic) discussion on love, dating, and the red flags we refuse to overlook!
➡️ Follow me on Instagram for more hot takes and updates: @isaiaharuiz

Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
Episode | He Called Her a Stalker: Hinge Drama, a New Baby, & Brothely Pride
In this episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me, we thought my friend Jasmine had found the perfect guy on Hinge… until he completely flipped the script and called her a stalker! We’re breaking down the wildest dating app moment yet and why some people really need to get a grip.
On a much sweeter note, I’m also sharing more about my sister’s journey to welcoming her baby boy into the world and how special this moment has been for our family. Plus, I can’t help but gush about my little brother—I’m so proud of him and all that he’s becoming.
Join me for an episode full of twists, turns, and heartfelt moments.
➡️ Follow me on Instagram for more updates and stories: @isaiaharuiz

Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
This Story Makes Me Believe in True Love: A Love Story, a Near-Death Experience, & a Giveaway!
In this episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me, I’m sharing a love story that will restore your faith in true love—my friends Lauren and Alberto’s beautiful journey together. Their story is the kind of romance that feels straight out of a movie, and I can’t wait for you to hear it!
But that’s not all—I also recount a terrifying moment where I narrowly escaped a serious accident (seriously, I was this close to disaster). Plus, I have some exciting news… I’m announcing my first-ever giveaway! Tune in to find out how you can win.
Don’t miss this episode filled with love, life’s unexpected moments, and exciting surprises!
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Thursday Jan 30, 2025
Thursday Jan 30, 2025
Trust God’s Timing & Friendships Ending: Faith, Growth, and Letting Go
In this deeply personal episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me, I open up about my journey of strengthening my relationship with God as a gay Christian. Faith, identity, and spirituality can be a complicated mix, but I’m learning to trust God’s timing in all things.
I also share my experience of coming to terms with the end of a friendship—how I’ve processed it, what I’ve learned, and why sometimes letting go is necessary for growth. If you’ve ever struggled with faith, friendships, or navigating life’s unexpected turns, this episode is for you.
Listen now for an honest and heartfelt conversation on faith, friendships, and trusting the process.
➡️ Follow me on Instagram for more updates and reflections: @isaiaharuiz

Tuesday Jan 28, 2025
Tuesday Jan 28, 2025
First Guest: Keaton – Wicked, College Memories, & New Zealand Connections
In this exciting episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me, I’m joined by my first-ever guest: my college best friend, Keaton! Despite living all the way in New Zealand, Keaton hops on a call to catch up and chat about all the things.
We’re talking about the upcoming Wicked movie (can you say Defying Gravity?!), our funniest college stories that you won’t believe actually happened, and my unforgettable time spent with Keaton’s parents. This episode is full of laughter, nostalgia, and a lot of heart.
Don’t miss my first guest appearance—it’s one for the books! Make sure to subscribe for more fun conversations and stories.
➡️ Follow me on Instagram for updates, behind-the-scenes moments, and more: @isaiaharuiz➡️ Follow my reading journey on Goodreads: Goodreads.com/urgaybrother

Thursday Jan 23, 2025
Thursday Jan 23, 2025
I Read 5 Books in January: Isaiah’s Book Club Series Premiere
Welcome to the first episode of Isaiah’s Book Club! In this brand-new series on You Didn’t Hear This From Me, I’m diving into the five incredible books I read in January. From heartfelt romances to gripping tales of resilience, here’s what made the list: • Lie with Me by Philippe Besson: A tender, nostalgic love story. • Brokeback Mountain by Annie Proulx: The iconic tale of love, loss, and longing. • The Ride of a Lifetime by Robert Iger: A must-read for anyone chasing big dreams. • Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe by Benjamin Alire Sáenz: A beautiful exploration of identity and friendship. • The Nickel Boys by Colson Whitehead: A haunting and powerful story based on true events.
I’m breaking down what I loved about each book, sharing key takeaways, and giving my honest thoughts on these impactful reads. Whether you’re looking for your next read or just love a good book chat, this episode is for you!
Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes of Isaiah’s Book Club, along with stories, advice, and so much more.
➡️ Follow me on Instagram for book recommendations, updates, and behind-the-scenes fun: @isaiaharuiz➡️ Check out my Goodreads profile to follow my reading journey: Goodreads.com/urgaybrother

Tuesday Jan 21, 2025
Tuesday Jan 21, 2025
My Friend Took My Dating Advice & Country Boys I Love YouIn this episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me, I’m sharing two juicy stories you won’t want to miss. First, I spill the tea on how one of my friends decided to follow my dating advice—with some surprising results! Then, we’re taking a detour to the countryside as I dive into my love for country boys. From their charm to their quirks, I’m breaking down what makes them so irresistible.This episode is all about love, laughter, and the unexpected twists that come with it. Don’t miss it—subscribe for more stories, advice, and fun!➡️ Follow me on Instagram for updates, behind-the-scenes moments, and more: @isaiaharuiz

Thursday Jan 16, 2025
Thursday Jan 16, 2025
I Have a Bad Friend: Navigating Friendship Breakups
In this candid episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me, I’m opening up about a tough situation: dealing with a bad friend. From recognizing the red flags to grappling with the idea of a friendship breakup, I’m sharing my personal experience and reflections on what it means to let go of relationships that no longer serve you.
Breaking up with a friend isn’t easy, but sometimes it’s necessary for your growth and well-being. Tune in as I explore the emotions, challenges, and lessons that come with this process—and maybe help you find clarity if you’re in a similar situation.
Don’t forget to subscribe for more honest conversations about life, love, and personal growth.
➡️ Follow me on Instagram for updates, advice, and more personal stories: @isaiaharuiz

Tuesday Jan 14, 2025
Tuesday Jan 14, 2025
Episode 1 of 2025 | My Sister Got Married & 2025 Goals
Kicking off 2025 with a bang, this episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me is all about celebrations and fresh starts. First, I share the unforgettable story of my sister’s surprise wedding—yes, it was a total shock, and I’ve got all the details! Then, I’m diving into my 2025 bingo card, packed with goals, dreams, and plans for the year ahead.
From personal growth to big ambitions, this episode is full of laughter, inspiration, and a little bit of chaos (as always). Start your year with me as we set intentions, reflect on milestones, and get excited for what’s to come.
Subscribe now to follow along for more stories, goals, and life updates in 2025!
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Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
In this special holiday episode of You Didn’t Hear This From Me, I’m diving into the magic of the season and reflecting on what makes this time of year so special. From a hilarious story about a Christmas card my friend received to the joy of seeing Home Alone on the big screen, this episode is packed with laughter and nostalgia.
I also take a heartfelt trip down memory lane to share how my mom made Christmas Eve unforgettable, creating traditions and moments that still feel magical today.
Join me for a cozy, festive episode celebrating the spirit of the season. Don’t forget to subscribe for more stories, laughs, and love!
➡️ Follow me on Instagram for holiday updates, fun moments, and more: @isaiaharuiz